Significance
of this module
I realized the
importance of taking this module after our first lecture by Bro Casey. It’s
essential for both new and current students because we want to create a
cohesive and inclusive learning environment in ACTS College and this module
lays the foundation for us. Since we are “a community impacted by Christ,
sharing common emotions and values and actively engaging in learning from one
another”, we should make sure we live out our spirituality in every way when we
communicate with our classmates, in and out of school. This means we express
our care and support to one another constantly, even when we are texting each
other regarding group assignments. This means we share our resources generously
and willingly, be it our “manna and quail” or our scanned required readings
from the library. This means we develop deeper friendships and share our lives,
building bridges and connections with one another, within the English
department and across the Chinese department. As we’re doing all these, we’re
seeking out God’s will in our lives because the Lord reveals his plans to us
step by step. We will never know he plans to open a door for us through our
classmates if we are always holding back and having reservations. After this
module, we become agents of change among those who haven’t taken the course. We
will rub off what we’ve gained from this module to others and influence them as
well. It’s contagious, I believe. With that, we will definitely attract new
students to join this Christian learning community.
Practices of Christian
Learning Community
Gratitude
Paul reminded us to be
grateful, even when we are praying (1Cor 1:4; Phil 4:6). This is an important
reminder not to take the things we have and people around us for granted. Thus,
I plan to practise what I’ve learnt from one of our coffee theology discussions
– DDS. This is an acronym for “Describe what you see; Describe what you feel;
Say it to the person”. Many a times, we simply say, “Thank you” without
describing the action and feeling. However, I realise that describing them
shows another level of appreciation for the kind act and the giver will feel
more encouraged by the receiver. Maybe the giver would also be motivated to
give more in future.
Keeping Fidelity
Being faithful is
expected of me because God is faithful (Ps 15:4). It stabilises the
relationships I made, especially in the school context. My classmates would not
be able to trust me if I break my promises easily. That’s why I always think
carefully and only make a promise when I’m sure I’m able to fulfil it. I’ve
also learnt to take periodic reminders of God’s faithfulness in my life. Doing
this keeps me in check to keep fidelity and even show gratitude to God.
Living Truthfully
Honesty is very
important to me. That is why I cannot even accept half-truths. To me, telling
half-truths is equal to telling a lie. God desires and expects honesty from us
and this is found both in OT and NT. Of course, this also means we need to tell
the truth in love. This is why building relationships is important in a
Christian learning community because the receiver will be able to accept our
words of truth positively when we have a close relationship. The receiver will
be able to hear our heart when we speak. Over the years, I’ve learnt to be
transparent and vulnerable to those I’m close to because I know they will also
reciprocate by being transparent and vulnerable to me. It takes risk because it
involves confidentiality but it’s worth it. I believe relationships can only be
deepen when we’re open. I’m not fearful because I know God will protect and guard
me.
Hospitality
Even
though I’ve taken Biblical Hospitality taught by Sis Davina last year, it’s
always good and refreshing to be reminded the biblical basis and the importance
of practising hospitality. Treating and respecting everyone as a “limited
edition” is interesting. It helps me to appreciate their diversity in
personality and needs. I found doing the “Y” organiser where we discussed the
pros and cons of how it sounds, looks and feels like when we practise
hospitality very enlightening. While we want to extend our hand and heart to
others, we must also admit there are inconveniences and sacrifices to be made.
It is real that we have to sacrifice our time and personal space to others.
Yet, we still choose to do it because we want to and we ought to. Practising
hospitality is a command. One of my principles in life is, “Good things must
share”. The last few statements made by Sis Davina closed the session
beautifully. She said, “We were strangers but God welcomes us. We’re still aliens in this world.
And because God welcomes us, we welcome our classmates.” With this, I will
continue to extend my hand and open my heart to welcome fellow ACTS classmates
into my life.
thanks for sharing your thoughts.. reading through what you say is like a refresher summary of what I have learnt.. haha :)
ReplyDeleteHahahaha.... ;)
DeleteThanks for reiterating the DDS practice - describe what you see, describe what you feel, say it to the person. I think it is important that we acknowledge what others give by being aware of what they have done and expressing our gratitude for them. Many times we are so busy with our own work that we don't notice the things we take for granted that actually come from the effort of others. A great example would be in our homes where things that our family members do for us are often overlooked.
ReplyDeleteHi Aggie, every time when i say thank you to others, i never describe to them what and why i thank them for. At times i feels like whether my thank you is it a sincere thank you. Thank you for your group discussion, that came out with the DDS. Always remember to describe what i see, what i feel and say it out to that person.
ReplyDeleteWelcoming others, showing hospitality.
ReplyDeleteI will try, though it is not my strength.